For a second, imagine you are in a situation where you have to stay calm but you react in anger. Or you have just to listen but you talk constantly. Let me help you with that. Here’s a situation: Let’s say you and your best friend have a pact which forces both of you not
In the interactions I’ve had with people, I’ve noticed that when they encounter an obstacle, people usually condition themselves to that obstacle. But sometimes it’s not even an obstacle involved and people are doing the same thing. Oftentimes, by simply conditioning ourselves to something, we end up limiting whatever we could discover. When I’m in
Oftentimes, when we're giving advice or trying to help someone to do something, we live (without realizing it) the life of the person we're trying to help. For example, there are many parents who encourage their children to go to a certain college, either because they didn't get into that college or because they believe
Since I’ve known myself, I’ve always wanted to learn more and be good at doing things by myself. When I was a child, I remember that I wanted to do lots of things but nobody wanted to join me. And the more I was interested in doing things, the fewer people wanted to spend time
The right people are actually those who are able and capable to match your needs. Otherwise, they wouldn't be the right people - they would be just people who can partially help you. The right people are those people who can match your needs. How do you actually find those people? First of all, you
This present moment, this very second, is the most important moment. It is what you have and it’s the only thing you have. Everything else is part of your past and it represents just a connection to your present. Nothing more. This present that you have right now, can always go away. Can always become
It doesn’t matter if you’re born with amazing skills and you’re the smartest on the planet. There are other things more important that you should take into consideration if you really care about how well you develop yourself as a valuable individual. The thing is, people will always try to kill your talent for various
It happened way too many times to get to the point where I finished something and feel like crap because that something was unknown to others. Though I’ve tried to correct it, in a way it’s still happening. In a way, I’m still looking for others’ approval and have the stupid desire to know that
Three months have passed since I’ve written anything and it feels like a burden to write something again. So, I’m thinking about starting small, with a short article about things that have helped me until now — values, perspectives, and mindsets that I’m living my life by. 1. Feeling others’ vibe and being able to
If you have ever felt like your life is not what it was supposed to be, then asking yourself some questions is going to bring you some closure. You may feel like your world is ending, your time is up, or like there is nothing left for you to do with your life. It means
