Some people find it really hard to say no, even though they don’t want to do the specific thing they’re asked to do. A few weeks ago, I was at some sort of party that included a two-hour dancing lesson. It started around 8 PM and I was a bit tired. After 30 minutes
If you are capable to keep going even though you don’t see any results, you’ll be able to find what most people can’t. If you can’t see results it doesn’t mean there aren’t any. And there are moments when you don’t see result and you don’t stress yourself out because of it. Imagine you buy
Happiness is this precious thing we’re all looking for and it’s so precious, we sometimes desperately want it. How comes that in the process of searching for happiness, only a few find it? How comes that when you’re looking for happiness, you don’t really know where to start and it’s hard to put
We live in a society where we’ve been taught to compare ourselves with everything. We compare ourselves with others and with what they have. Because, in the end, nobody will like us the way we are. And that’s the biggest lie you’ve been told. If you want to be liked by others, you have to
I’ve started writing in 2009 but only in 2015-2016, when I started writing books, I truly realized that writing is for me and writing is something that I want to do for many years … maybe for the rest of my life. I remember that in 2009 I had a blog on the Internet
Feeling good is hard and it usually happens is a conditioned manner. You feel good when you buy yourself a new product. You feel good when you eat that delicious hamburger. You feel good when you listen to that song. You feel good when you are surrounded by friends. Some of these examples are positive
Have you got the documents from our accountant? No, I haven’t. But you promised you’ll get them. Well, I hoped you’ll get them because I didn’t have any free time. And why didn’t you say anything? I thought you’ll figure it out by yourself. Have you ever been in a situation like this? A situation
For a second, imagine you are in a situation where you have to stay calm but you react in anger. Or you have just to listen but you talk constantly. Let me help you with that. Here’s a situation: Let’s say you and your best friend have a pact which forces both of you not
In the interactions I’ve had with people, I’ve noticed that when they encounter an obstacle, people usually condition themselves to that obstacle. But sometimes it’s not even an obstacle involved and people are doing the same thing. Oftentimes, by simply conditioning ourselves to something, we end up limiting whatever we could discover. When I’m in
Oftentimes, when we're giving advice or trying to help someone to do something, we live (without realizing it) the life of the person we're trying to help. For example, there are many parents who encourage their children to go to a certain college, either because they didn't get into that college or because they believe
